Time Flies

 No excuses.

I just don't post often.

Time flies when you are having fun, or so the saying goes.... right??

Unless you count being bitten by a brown recluse spider (October 9, 2019), being diagnosed with HR+, HER2- Breast Cancer (December 30, 2019), 6 surgeries through 2020 four of them after COVID-19 shut the world down, another surgery in 2021... and the list goes on as fun, then yeah.

We'll just pretend my blog starts NOW!

So, if you've been here before, you know I have 5 children (My 5 Monkeys). They aren't little anymore.

Christopher is 28, lives at home again. He works as a security officer at a nearby hospital.

Mary Ann is almost 21, lives on her own in the next town.

Nicholas is almost 18. He'll be a high school senior this year. This should be an adventure!!

Katie is 15. She'll be a high school sophomore.

Benjamin is 14 and will also be a high school sophomore.

We do have a new addition to the family since September 30, 2022. Our beloved Pitbull Weimaraner mix. His name is Derby and he's 9 months old. We're being responsible pet owners and having him neutered next month. 

Our other dog, Cheddar, is a 12 year old Cocker Spaniel. I believe him to be an English Cocker Spaniel, but his pedigree says American Cocker Spaniel. Whatever, he's still cute; even if he's going blind due to cataracts and deaf.

My husband and I enjoy riding motorcycles. Maybe I'll share some of our adventures, eventually. We have not been riding much this year due ankle injuries. He fractured his ankle almost two years ago. I suffered a severe sprain in May 2023. Good Days. Bad Days. I'm sure you get it.

Plans for the blog going forward will be sharing about our family life. My planner(s), my cancer story,  my home projects, crafting, etc. Anything goes. If I feel like writing about it; it will be here.

From here forward, there may be some affiliate links used in my posts. I've been doing a lot of small home improvement, home organization, and other projects. When I post about those things, I'll be sharing links to products I/We purchased. If you buy something using the link I've provided, I might receive a small amount of compensation.

Ch-Ch-Cha-Changes

Maybe, just maybe, I should post more often than I do. I always say I will, then I don't. One post at a time, right?!

So much has changed in our family in the past two and a half years!

Oldest son, now 24 years old, moved away from home a little over a year ago. He didn't just get an apartment in town, or even the next town over. He moved away! From our small mid-Michigan town to a suburb of Madison, Wisconsin. We don't hear from him as often as I would like, but I'm his Momma, he could call every day and it wouldn't be often enough. We're still struggling to find our new balance, yes, over a year later - still struggling. I miss him.

Oldest daughter is now 16 and gearing up for her Junior Year of high school. She's also going to be dual enrolled at a local community college in their Culinary Arts program. Free college while going to high school - YES PLEASE! She plans to use the skills she learns in the Culinary program to get a decent job to pay her way through the rest of her college career. Right now, she's leaning toward sign language interpretation. Ideally, she's like to become a New York Times' Best Selling Author. GOALS!

Middle Son is 13, going into 8th grade, which is the first year in the high school building in our school district. He's an amazing runner and looking forward to joining the middle school cross country and track teams this year.

Youngest daughter is 11, going into 6th grade. Drama is her middle name. If we could get her over the stage-fright, I think she'd make an excellent actress! The girl can also sing!

Youngest son is 10, also going into the 6th grade. He's got the mind of an engineer, just like his dad. Wants to know how stuff works. Loves anything tech. Hoping he gets to take advantage of the opportunities our school district offers. I'm going to encourage him to join the Robotics Team this year, if he can.

Our two black cocker spaniels passed away last summer and the summer before. One day apart. They are buried in the back yard. The girls want to put in a memorial flower bed. Another project for another day. Our red and white cocker spaniel, Cheddar, is entering his senior years, but still acts like a puppy when he isn't lounging on the couch or the recliner.

We added a veiled chameleon to our family on February 17, 2019. We named him Picasso. I'll be honest, I didn't want to add a scaled animal to the family, but he won me over. Love that crazy little lizard.

That's the update... more later.

Early Morning Musings

I had a lot to do yesterday. Deposit a check at the bank, pay our home owners' insurance, pay the cable/internet/telephone bill, make a flyer for Thanksgiving Eve party and post Thanksgiving Dinner parties for the Eagles' Club. Got it all done by 11:45am.

Here I sit at 4:20AM ET writing this post. I need to leave for work in a little less than an hour.

Speaking of work, I'm not sure if I ever shared that I became a substitute school bus driver for my kids' school district. I trained in late 2014-early 2015. I was hired as a substitute driver on April 15, 2015 - a tax day I won't forget. ever. The general reaction from people when they find out I drive a school bus is, "I could never do that!" Honestly, that's what I thought before I actually went through the process and got my CDL B SP (that's commercial driver license class B School Bus and Passenger endorsements). I love my job! I really enjoy being among the first people representing our school district to greet many of the kids in the morning and being one of the last friendly faces they see in the afternoon. Sure, it has it's bad days... the trouble-makers, the inclement weather when school really should have been delayed or cancelled, and mechanical issues. There are far more good days than bad ones! Our mechanic, Mike, is the best! He gets the buses in and out of the service garage as quickly as possible!

Starting this afternoon, I'll be subbing long term for one of our drivers who will be out on medical leave. There will be some mornings all my kids will need to go to work with me due to my husband's and my oldest son's work schedules. Today is not one of those, thankfully. Four o'clock in the morning is hard on my two 8 year olds. Next school year will be easier, they will be in 4th grade. In our district, 4th grade is in the Middle School building which means they start an hour earlier than they do this year.

My oldest son is 21. Lives at home. Works 3 part time jobs, which some weeks adds up to a 40 hour work week. He helps me a ton at home, not so much with chores... he's great at getting the kids ready for school and on their buses and he's an amazing cook! Good thing he enjoys cooking, otherwise, we'd be eating cereal and mac & cheese every night. I'm not the best cook and I do not like cooking. I'm learning and growing. My parents always joke that I could burn water, problem, it's no joke. LOL

Enough of my musings for now.

Must check out Pinterest for cute, safe, no mess, and not too mischievous/naughty activities for our Elf On The Shelf.

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Rather than make a new post... just thought I would add on to this one.

My 13 year old 8th Grade daughter is currently memorizing the Periodic Table of Elements. She's using this....

to help. I'm almost sick of hearing it already!!

Random Ramblings

WOW! Two years and two days since I last posted. Oops. I guess I've let life just run away with me. I'll try to do better, but no promises.

I'm currently trying to get my house ready for the Thanksgiving holiday and feast that we're hosting again this year. We've been hosting Thanksgiving for 14 or 15 years now. We've almost got it down to a science or art-form. My husband cooks an amazing turkey! One year, no carving required... the bird literally fell apart as we were pulling it out of the oven. Best. Turkey. Ever. He also makes pumpkin pie... from scratch!! I'm responsible for prep (cutting celery and onions for the stuffing), mashed potatoes, sweet potato dessert, and clean-up. He handles the turkey, the stuffing, and the pies. Some years, he's even done all of the grocery shopping.

I'm also trying to plan the Advent/Christmas season fun and activities for our family. It's so hard this year. We have our oldest, 21 years old, still living at home. The other four kids are 13 (she turns 14 four days before Christmas), 10 (he'll be 11 a little over two weeks before Christmas), 8 (she'll turn 9 about three weeks after Christmas), and 8 (he turned 8 the week before Halloween). They are all very different personalities and interests. About the only thing they all agree on is the fun of our Elf On The Shelf "Elfis". I'm planning for his return the day after Thanksgiving.

Speaking of Santa's Scout Elves, does anyone have any tried and true and non-messy things our elf can do? Places to hide that I haven't already thought of? I'm notorious for doing super well for the first 5 or 6 days... then I get spotty about it. I'm going to make an appointment in my calendar or an alarm on my phone to remind to get it done each night. Any other suggestions on how I can handle that little dilema? My biggest enemy this year is going to be my work schedule. I'm a substitute school bus driver, so I get up very, very early in the morning... which means I go to bed super early in the evening. I'm always up and dressed and ready to go in case my supervisor calls.

Health Care Woes

I seriously hate this time of year! I was actually enjoying it until my husband called today. His boss has revealed his new cost savings measures.

New health insurance.

Our current relationships with our current doctors are coming to an abrupt end. The new insurance will be going into effect on December 1. Nothing like giving us some time to find the doctors that we think will best suit our families. There were two options for family doctors near (if you call more than 10 miles/less than 30 miles away near) my home. The first (and closest) option does not accept patients under the age of 12 years. Seriously?!? So I called the other option. They will have no problem participating with our daughter’s Children’s Special Healthcare Services coverage on top of our primary insurance.

We also get new dental insurance. The nearest dentist is over 45 miles from our home. Looks like we’ll go another 10 years or so before we go to the dentist again.

We also get vision insurance. Let me just say, what a joke!!

Frustrated.

On top of this, if my husband’s employer did NOT offer health coverage, we would be eligible for subsidized healthcare coverage. If we opt out of the “employer provided” coverage, we also “opt out” of subsidized coverage. This is freaking frustrating. The ACA (Affordable Care Act – aka ObamaCare) is making it impossible for families to have affordable options!

***end of rant***

Summer Has Begun

Summer officially began for the Ingram household at 12:15pm when the last day of school dismissed. The 5th graders did their Final Walk of the Hall to the tune of “Happy” by Pharrell (the fact I spell that name even remotely correctly surprises my daughter).

Interesting twist #1 for Summer 2014 occurred at 6:15pm this evening when my husband called. We’ve been looking for a camper – any camper that would sleep our family – for a while now. Hubs found one listed on a Facebook Yard Sale group yesterday. I went and bought it today! Happy Father’s Day!! LOL The thought of all the gear we’re going to need to even go camping in it has my head spinning. We got a really go deal. We’re looking at this as a “starter camper.” Most people get a starter home. LOL With 4 kids (at home) and 3 dogs I didn’t want to buy anything super new & expensive. I managed to back the silly thing into the driveway all by myself. Honestly, it took a little while. Our gate is fairly narrow and we have a dead vehicle parked in the driveway.

Friday we’re ditching our big name, big bill cable and internet provider for the local smaller more personal service cable and internet provider! Looking forward to it!

Friday is a big day… Christopher is coming home from school for the weekend. Ok, so he gets off the train at 10pm on Friday night and we have to get to the train station before 7am on Sunday morning – so he’s coming home to spend Saturday with the family. Looking forward to seeing him. he’s been away at school since the 13th of May. Then in July I’ll go get him and all of his stuff. He’ll be home for a 6 week stint before going back to school on September 2 (just like the rest of the kids).

Took the kids to the library today after school. The summer reading program starts on June 23 – must remember to go back and sign them up! Started each of the (at home) kids a “shelf” on my GoodReads account so we can track the books they read this summer. I’ll try to show/link the books (with my Amazon affiliate account) as we finish them.

Time Flies

Time flies when you’re having fun, I suppose.

Nicholas started basketball in January. Practice one night a week and games on Saturdays. This ended just in time for big sister’s activities to really ramp up.

Mary Ann is currently participating in Girls On The Run, a volleyball league at our local YMCA, and she’s continuing with her Hip-Hop Dance class. Recital is coming soon!